ACCEPTANCE

Dealing with death

We have many challenges in life, and death is one of them! When someone we love passes away, it will not be easy to accept any kind of closure, especially when we’re suffering, and wishing those things would have never happened! Although, if after a short grieving process, we decide to start cultivating acceptance in our lives, we’ll likely cope with future crises differently and view them from a different perspective... the circle of life! We will accept death much easier, instead of resisting it! When it comes to someone passing away, regret... is the number 1 toughest challenge to get by! You think of all the times you should have done this or done that and you deprive yourself of thinking about the good times when you did this or that! No matter how much you beat yourself up, it will never bring them back, but from personal experience of losing my dad at an early youth and mom, just before Christmas 2019 (5 months ago), I can personally tell you that, you should remember all the best times and look forward to the day you will see the person or people you have lost again! Life is far too short and spiritual reasoning for death, far outweighs our emotions of the loss we have occurred! We know it is not easy when a death happens and there is no real easy way to just say let go, but you must continue living, building, and helping others, even though it will be hard! For other’s opinions and more information on this topic, check out Googles #1 top-ranked website @... https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2017/may/1/health-how-deal-death-loss-grief-bereavement/ and see what they are saying!

The False Comfort 

Success does not come from the things we are comfortable with, success comes from the things that make us uncomfortable! How many people can you think of right now, that are not risk-takers of any kind? Many people are comfortable with their lives as they know it! They spend their days at home or work, they eat the same way, dress the same way, act the same way, think the same way, talk the same way and ultimately... plan the same way! Nothing ever changes for them, they want more, but nothing ever changes! They simply do not want to risk the comfort of stability (if there were such a thing) that they have going on! How many people can you think of right now, that become uncomfortable with the idea of change? The simple truth is, if we want things to change in our life, we must take massive action towards change! Here is a question for you... how much do you think you would have learned if nothing bad ever happened to you if you had experienced no adversity at all? Success comes from the unknown and provides results...GOOD OR BAD! Go ahead, step out of your comfort zone, and try something new and different, that can give you what you seek! If you lose, well at least you tried, but if you win? oh man, that is going to feel incredible! For other’s opinions and more information on this topic, check out Googles #1 top-ranked website @... https://lifehacker.com/the-science-of-breaking-out-of-your-comfort-zone-and-w-656426705 and see what they are saying!

Why People Lie

Have you ever wonder why people lie? Lies may serve a variety of instrumental, interpersonal, or psychological functions for the individuals who use them! In psychiatrypathological lying (AKA… compulsive lying) is a behavior of habitual or compulsive lying! Here are some of the reasons as to why people will lie! They want to avoid punishment, they want to obtain a reward not otherwise readily obtainable, they want to protect another person from being punished, they want to protect themself from the threat of physical harm, they want to win the admiration of others, they want to get out of an awkward social situation, they want to avoid embarrassment, they want to maintain privacy without notifying others of that intention, They simply think that lying doesn’t matter, they want to keep control and most of all…they want it to be true! Here is a question for you... have you ever lied? The above list is all things one can work on, they can replace a lie with good old fashioned honesty! 10 fold, it will be a better outcome! For other’s opinions and more information on this topic, check out Googles #1 top-ranked website @... https://ideapod.com/why-do-people-lie-12-main-motives-for-deception/ and see what they are saying! 

The True Betrayal

True betrayal, is not when someone betrays you, true betrayal happens when you don't pick yourself up off the rocks and get back to building! Now, we completely understand the pain, discomfort, sick feeling, anger, confusion, and distrust, that comes from being betrayed! However, if you don't become bigger than the moment, then the moment is going to own you! There will be times that betrayal occurs in your life and unfortunately, there are most likely still a few or many to come! The reason we say this is to prepare you for more let downs and disappointments because it makes you stronger, better, faster, and smarter when they happen! God knows you will not let that happen again, but if you throw up all the walls and barricades, we can promise you... you will miss out on a lot of good things in life because 1 or 2 people were jerks! Don't shut out an opportunity for yourself by shutting out the world, the world never betrayed you, and not every person you run into will do that to you! Even if it hurts like all hell, don't you worry about it, karma will sort them out soon enough! It is a law that never fails at what it does best... it serves justice! So remember this, don't betray yourself by falling victim... forgive, forget and move on... be the victor! For other’s opinions and more information on this topic, check out Googles #1 top-ranked website @... https://www.excelatlife.com/articles/betrayed.htm and see what they are saying!